Effective communication videos

1st video : why effective communication
2nd video: environmnent
2nd video: cognitive load and cognitive learning  

2nd lecture: politics and money making- patriotism, Vikas, made in India, digital India, beti padhai etc. What's your message. What is trending. Patriotism cricket, etc. Even coca cola. Amul makes ads on what is trending. Twitter has a field day on what is trending. 

the maze photo of mouse and cheese - what do you see... the mouse - that is you, the cheese that is your goal... what do you have to find out - the way .... what we usually do is we try to find a way without knowing our goals.

Reactive response - I am mad because he makes me mad.

Proactive language: my alternatives, my decision

Story telling. Beginning middle and end. More importantly knowing your audience.

Start your story or conversation with what your audience knows or can relate to.

Where is it most needed? Everywhere.
Personal relations. Professional relation. Boss, children, wife  girlfriend. The local Pani Puri Wala. If you are the local Pani Puri Wala.
Negotiation, compromise, influence,
Teaching
Signage - advertising

Influencing is the same as effective communication

Proposing friendship TO A girl or proposing marriage.

leadership - how to be a leader - follower, knowing you cannot do everything, leading from the front, relationship, - connect, engage, influence,

every part of your growth is connected to communication

personality development

5 Cs of Talent: character, collaboration, competency, communication, commitment

leadership skills
people skills
influence

colour is communication

need for engagement

Top Soft skills: you need communication -
what are interpersonal skills ? communication
marketing executive, Human resources, business man what do you need most? communication skills

what is your cv or resume or bio data - it is communication

Cognitive science for the other person to understand

humour =-== we need humour
body language
visual